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Posted by David Roy on: August 13, 2007
Online dating: How to make a woman like you within the first five minutes of your first date
When dating online, the goal is to make contact with a woman, to meet her, and ultimately to begin a relationship. During that process, the first meeting is very important.
At this first meeting, both of you will decide if there is chemistry between you and if there is a possibility of starting up a relationship. The first five minutes are the most important moments of your meeting. This is your first and only chance to make a good first impression on her. Mess up those first five minutes and the odds are that you will not hear from her again.
On the other hand, if you take no risks, play your strong suit, and decide to make a very good first impression, especially during those first five minutes, then the chances of success with that woman will increase.
Read the following first-date tips to ensure you'll make a good first impression on the woman of your dreams.
Be on time. Don't be late to your first meeting. That's a turn-off for any woman. She may think that you are not interested in the meeting or in her. You also don't want to begin that first meeting by justifying why you are late.
You should plan on getting there at least a few minutes earlier. Try to give yourself a 15-minute window in case something happens on the way to the meeting, such as an accident that slows down traffic.
Look good. Shower, brush your teeth, and shave just before leaving if you can. Wear clothes that make you look and feel good. Not only will you look more attractive to her, but you will feel more attractive and confident yourself.
You don't want to be thinking about whether you have bad breath while talking to her. You want to keep all your energy working on maintaining good interaction and increasing the affinity with this woman instead of worrying about your hygiene or about how you look.
Be confident. If you think you are Superman during that first meeting, then you are Superman. If you lack confidence or don't feel good about yourself, then that will show during the meeting. Your chances of success depend on your attitude. Just be yourself, feel good about yourself, and be confident. Allow her to meet the real you at your best.
The bottom line is, if you go to that meeting with the idea that you cannot win her, then chances are you will not. This will show right from the beginning of the meeting, and you will see your chance of having a nice relationship already flying out the window. If you firmly believe that you can impress her, then that will also show during the meeting. You will be able to increase the affinity between the two of you. She will like you for your attitude and will want to meet you again.
Don't forget to smile. The majority of women find that that a man who smiles a lot is a bigger turn-on than one who is just physically attractive. And smiling is an easy trait to master. Practice in front of the mirror if you have to. That little detail could make all the difference.
Greet her in a friendly manner. When you see her for the first time, smile right away, and give her a nice hug and a kiss on the cheek. The first thing she will see and remember is that smile and that nice hug you gave her. You will make a good impression in the first few seconds and will also put her at ease.
Communicate. Communication does not mean just talking or just listening for the entire meeting. Both of you must have a chance to express yourselves. The goal is to create an exchange between you and her, so you both can learn about each other.
The first five minutes of your first meeting are the most important. The future of your relationship depends on them. You should definitely do everything you can to get chance on your side by giving a good first impression.
That said, making a good first impression may not ensure a long-term and lovely relationship. Obviously there are other factors that come into play, and after all, you may not even wish to pursue her. One thing is sure: If you succeed in the first five minutes and she likes you, you will have laid the foundation for a friendly or possibly a loving relationship.
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