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Posted by David Roy on: August 10, 2007
How to meet women on Internet dating websites
It is pretty easy to meet women on dating websites, but for some reason men often say they have a hard time. They complain about the lack of women contacting them. Even as part of the online dating community, they feel as though they are alone on the website.
If you are on a good online dating website, there is no reason for you not to be in contact with one or more women. Here are a few suggestions to help you succeed in meeting women you may wish to date.
Make sure your Internet dating website is a good one. There are many dating websites out there. They are not all good. Some do not have many members. Others may have lots of members but not in your area.
Make sure the website you are using is a good choice for you. Most sites allow you to do some free location searches before you join or pay for a membership. Use this opportunity to find out if enough of that particular website's members live in your area.
If you find lots of local profiles, look at their last log-on dates. Dating websites usually show a member's last activity date on his or her ad. This will give you an idea of whether that particular website hosts enough active members in your area.
Have a good profile. Take some time to write a good profile. Be creative, honest, and specific. Do not write the same boring stuff, like "I like to watch movies," as everybody else does. Be more specific. You could say: "I love detective films. I like to try guessing who committed the crime. My favorite detective movie is The General's Daughter."
Spend some time figuring out who you are, what you like, and what kind of person you are looking for, and then use that information to complete your profile.
Post a good, recent photo of yourself, Add a recent, high-quality photo of yourself to your profile. Some women do not even look at profiles without pictures. In fact, dating websites give you the option to exclude profiles without photos from your search results, so without a photo, you won't show up on many women's search results.
Choose an attractive nickname. Having a good nickname can definitely help. This is one of the first thing women see when looking at your profile. Try to be creative and to choose something positive that has something to do with you. "MotorCycleMan" and "BlueEyes" are good examples. One woman told me that her reason for contacting a particular man was mainly because of his nickname—so that could be a make-or-break point for you.
Log on often. Log on to the website often. Search results are often listed by the last log-on date and time. This means that the more often you log on, the more often you will show at the top of women's search results, which in turn gives you more exposure and more chances of being contacted by one of them.
Be active. Browse and view women's profiles on a regular basis. Some Internet dating websites allow you to see who has looked at your profile, so she will know of your interest in her. You may capture a woman's attention this way and end up with an unexpected message in your in-box from a woman interested in knowing more about you.
If there is a chat room on the dating website you've chosen, make it a point to spend some time there every week so women can see that you exist and are actively looking for a date.
Contact other members. Make a point of contacting a few women every week. Do not send generic messages. Read their profiles and send them something short and honest that will grab their attention.
By choosing a good dating website, having a good profile, and increasing your online activity level, you should shortly see results. You will feel as though you are part of that dating community. You will slowly begin to make new friends, then you will go on dates, and eventually you will meet someone who is interested in a long-term relationship with you.
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